Friday, December 31, 2010
Hormones
Sometime in early December, I don't remember the day, I got a call from Trevor telling me Ariana was in her room crying with the door locked. She wouldn't tell him what was wrong, and wouldn't get ready for dance. He said she came home from school and when he asked her how her day was she just started crying and ran to her room. I asked to talk to Ariana. She picked up the phone and was crying. I asked what was wrong and she said, "Nothing." I asked what happened and she said, "Nothing." I asked her to please stop crying and get ready for dance. She told me she didn't know why she was crying. She said the hormones got her again. lol I told her just to breath and to get ready for dance. She was scaring her dad. Poor Trevor. I guess it is now hormone season in our house.
Ice Skating in Detroit
December 26, 2010
Today Trevor took the girls and I ice skating downtown at Campus Martius. It was so much fun and so very cold. The girls were all bundled up in their styling winter gear and looked absolutely adorable. Ariana looked like a million bucks with her khaki swede coat with a fur hood and a very colorful hat and a cream scarf. She looked like she just stepped off of a movie set. Her smile was so big there was no mistaking the fun she was having.
Julia looked so beautiful and grown up. She was wearing her new makeup and new plaid peacoat with a multicolor hat and scarf. She looked so old. She also looked like she could have just stepped off of a GAP billboard. I couldn't tell who was having more fun, me taking all the pictures or Trevor and the girls skating all over.
Trevor then took the camera and I went skating with the kids. We all had so much fun. They loved skating downtown. It is not that often that we get down to Detroit. Well, at least the girls and I don't get down there that often. Trevor, however, is down there Monday through Friday. It was nice of him to want to make that drive on a non work day to take us down there.
Once the girls decided they had enough and were too cold and hungry to skate any longer, Trevor took us to where he works. He then gave us what her called the "nickel tour". He showed us all the equipment he is responsible for and works on. The girls were very impressed. Trevor even took us in the creepy horror film-esc elevator. Now we know why he takes the stairs when he is a work. That elevator is CREEPY!
After the tour we headed over to Lafayette Coney. Trevor and I got coney dogs and coney fries and the girls got plain hot dogs. I don't know why they don't like coney dogs. Yum-o!!! I can see why people LOVE this place. Julia even tried the coney fries and liked them!!!! After Layette Coney we headed next door to American Coney. We figured we needed to do a taste test there to see which coney we liked best. So we had coneys and coney fries at American Coney as well. Very tasty too. American Coney is more commercialized and seemed like a chain. Lafayette was old diner style and authentic "hole in the wall". We thought Lafayette tasted the best and was our favorite. Definitely a place I want to eat at again.
I had a fantastic day with my wonderful husband and awesome kids. We created some great memories that I will treasure always.
Today Trevor took the girls and I ice skating downtown at Campus Martius. It was so much fun and so very cold. The girls were all bundled up in their styling winter gear and looked absolutely adorable. Ariana looked like a million bucks with her khaki swede coat with a fur hood and a very colorful hat and a cream scarf. She looked like she just stepped off of a movie set. Her smile was so big there was no mistaking the fun she was having.
Julia looked so beautiful and grown up. She was wearing her new makeup and new plaid peacoat with a multicolor hat and scarf. She looked so old. She also looked like she could have just stepped off of a GAP billboard. I couldn't tell who was having more fun, me taking all the pictures or Trevor and the girls skating all over.
Trevor then took the camera and I went skating with the kids. We all had so much fun. They loved skating downtown. It is not that often that we get down to Detroit. Well, at least the girls and I don't get down there that often. Trevor, however, is down there Monday through Friday. It was nice of him to want to make that drive on a non work day to take us down there.
Once the girls decided they had enough and were too cold and hungry to skate any longer, Trevor took us to where he works. He then gave us what her called the "nickel tour". He showed us all the equipment he is responsible for and works on. The girls were very impressed. Trevor even took us in the creepy horror film-esc elevator. Now we know why he takes the stairs when he is a work. That elevator is CREEPY!
After the tour we headed over to Lafayette Coney. Trevor and I got coney dogs and coney fries and the girls got plain hot dogs. I don't know why they don't like coney dogs. Yum-o!!! I can see why people LOVE this place. Julia even tried the coney fries and liked them!!!! After Layette Coney we headed next door to American Coney. We figured we needed to do a taste test there to see which coney we liked best. So we had coneys and coney fries at American Coney as well. Very tasty too. American Coney is more commercialized and seemed like a chain. Lafayette was old diner style and authentic "hole in the wall". We thought Lafayette tasted the best and was our favorite. Definitely a place I want to eat at again.
I had a fantastic day with my wonderful husband and awesome kids. We created some great memories that I will treasure always.
Christmas Eve
December 24th, 2010
Christmas Eve!!!! We had the family over a little dinner and gift exchange. The dinner was simple but good. I served Christmas pasta with salad and bread. Trevor made his famous apple pie for dessert which is always a group pleaser. We all had a good time. After dinner Matt, Sonia, and Gabrielle came over. Ariana and Julia had fun playing with their little cousin.
After Trevor's family left for the night, Steve came over. He had driven down from the Soo after work. We got out Apples to Apples and play a game. It was great family time. Then it was time for my parents and Steve to leave and for the kids to get to bed. After all, Santa was coming that night.
Christmas Eve!!!! We had the family over a little dinner and gift exchange. The dinner was simple but good. I served Christmas pasta with salad and bread. Trevor made his famous apple pie for dessert which is always a group pleaser. We all had a good time. After dinner Matt, Sonia, and Gabrielle came over. Ariana and Julia had fun playing with their little cousin.
After Trevor's family left for the night, Steve came over. He had driven down from the Soo after work. We got out Apples to Apples and play a game. It was great family time. Then it was time for my parents and Steve to leave and for the kids to get to bed. After all, Santa was coming that night.
Movie Night
Trevor and I had this great idea, to have a movie night with the kids. We saw previews for the remake of Fame so we ordered it from Netflix. We got the popcorn, M&Ms, and Reeses Pieces and settled in for a family movie night. As we were watching the movie we realized it was horrible! There was no plot. I can't even tell you what the movie was about or who the main characters were. It was a dud. The only one that liked it was Julia. We still can't figure out why she liked it. It must be because there was about 2 minutes of dancing in it. Even though we didn't like the movie we still enjoyed hanging out together.
Sledding
December 23rd, 2010
I didn't have to work today so I took the kids and some of their friends sledding. They had a blast. I, of course, brought my camera and took lots of pictures of them. I was having a good time and then Julia came up to me and asked if I took enough pictures and if I would go sit in the car now!!! :( She wanted to sled with just her friends and didn't want me to be there. It was funny and sad all at the same time. I understand how she wanted to be with just her friends but I was sad that she didn't want me there either.
Stop growing up Julia!
I didn't have to work today so I took the kids and some of their friends sledding. They had a blast. I, of course, brought my camera and took lots of pictures of them. I was having a good time and then Julia came up to me and asked if I took enough pictures and if I would go sit in the car now!!! :( She wanted to sled with just her friends and didn't want me to be there. It was funny and sad all at the same time. I understand how she wanted to be with just her friends but I was sad that she didn't want me there either.
Stop growing up Julia!
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
Things I Love
I thought I would write about things I love. Here are some of the things I love:
My girls giggling and laughing. Ariana coming up to me and telling me she loves me and then asks why do I always put on make-up? Julia's beautiful smile and sweet laugh. Plumeria. Pictures. Cameras. Fuzzy warm bright socks. Music. The ocean. The sound of ocean. The smell of the ocean. The salt air. Sunsets. Sunrises. Bike rides with Ariana and smelling lilacs. Tulips. Summer. Swimming. Lazy days in the pool. Skiing. Bonfires. Lavender. Orchids. Funny movies. Laughing. Friends. Trevor cooking dinner for me. Presents. Mountains. Family dinners. The smell of freshly cut grass. Just cuddling on the couch eating popcorn and drinking red wine with my wonderful husband and adorable little girls.
My girls giggling and laughing. Ariana coming up to me and telling me she loves me and then asks why do I always put on make-up? Julia's beautiful smile and sweet laugh. Plumeria. Pictures. Cameras. Fuzzy warm bright socks. Music. The ocean. The sound of ocean. The smell of the ocean. The salt air. Sunsets. Sunrises. Bike rides with Ariana and smelling lilacs. Tulips. Summer. Swimming. Lazy days in the pool. Skiing. Bonfires. Lavender. Orchids. Funny movies. Laughing. Friends. Trevor cooking dinner for me. Presents. Mountains. Family dinners. The smell of freshly cut grass. Just cuddling on the couch eating popcorn and drinking red wine with my wonderful husband and adorable little girls.
Tron
Trevor and I took the girls to go see the movie Tron in 3-d. It was a very fun movie and we all loved it. It was nice being together as a family. It has been awhile since we had fun times together. Ariana looked really cute wearing the 3-D glasses and eating her popcorn.
Shopping
Everybody knows how much I despise shopping. It is something I really don't like doing. I hate crowds. I hate spending money. When I shop I get in a bad mood and am not fun to be around. Well today was different. I went shopping with Julia and had a lot of fun! I took her out to do her Christmas shopping. We went to Kohls and she got some great deals. She used coupons and Kohls bonus bucks and learned how to stretch a buck. She found jean for $4 too! She helped me pick out some shirts for Trevor, and they weren't striped either. If you look in his closet all he has in striped shirts. I had a really good time and Julia and I both enjoyed ourselves. Maybe my view on shopping is changing. Maybe I can learn to enjoy it.
Birthday
It was Ariana's birthday on December 11, and she turned 9. When we were putting the candles on the cake we noticed that I bought a #8 candle! Trevor fixed it by cutting in and turning it into a funky #9. Then I only put 8 candles on the cupcakes. Ariana had already blown out the candles before we noticed so we had a do over. I added another candle and we sang Happy Birthday again. Then she blew out the candles and only blew out 8. lol. I guess she was just suppose to stay 8 and never get older. That night Ariana was a little sad and started to cry. She didn't want to get any older. I was sad she was getting older but I didn't tell her that. I told her that she had to get older. That I wanted her to grow up because the older she got the more fun things I could do with her. I also reminded her that no matter how old she got she would always be my baby. But inside I was sad she was growing up. My baby is now 9!!!
Ariana also had a little sleep over for her birthday and invited 2 girls. They all got along great and had a wonderful time. They were all so sweet and giggly.
Ariana also had a little sleep over for her birthday and invited 2 girls. They all got along great and had a wonderful time. They were all so sweet and giggly.
Thanksgiving
The girls were as excited for Thanksgiving as they would be for Christmas. I was shocked how excited they were. They both helped me cook too! Ariana was excited when she saw the circle bacon. Which was actually pancetta, Italian bacon. She was bummed when I cut it up and put it in the stuffing. The girls helped me by breaking up the bread for the stuffing. Then Ariana was disappointed that she didn't get to use a sharp knife. Yeah, she is not old enough for that. Trevor made an apple pie and Ariana helped him with that.
Thanksgiving turned out good. I was trying to perfect cooking turkeys. Whenever I cook turkeys they never turn out right. I follow the directions, use a meat thermometer, and use a pop up thermometer in the turkeys and they are still not done when I go to serve them. This year I planned on the turkeys being done at 2pm and eating at 4pm. At 4pm one turkey had just finished cooking and the other one still needed to cook another 45 minutes. Good thing I cooked two!
I still have not mastered the turkey but I will. I will cook another one but not on Thanksgiving. Next year I am not doing Thanksgiving. So I need to remember to read this before next Thanksgiving. I am not doing Thanksgiving.
Thanksgiving turned out good. I was trying to perfect cooking turkeys. Whenever I cook turkeys they never turn out right. I follow the directions, use a meat thermometer, and use a pop up thermometer in the turkeys and they are still not done when I go to serve them. This year I planned on the turkeys being done at 2pm and eating at 4pm. At 4pm one turkey had just finished cooking and the other one still needed to cook another 45 minutes. Good thing I cooked two!
I still have not mastered the turkey but I will. I will cook another one but not on Thanksgiving. Next year I am not doing Thanksgiving. So I need to remember to read this before next Thanksgiving. I am not doing Thanksgiving.
Monday, December 27, 2010
Hairspray
I went with my mom, Julia, and Ariana to see the play Hairspray at Walled Lake Western. It was so very awesome. The actors and actresses we outstanding. It was hard to believe they were only in high school. It was an outstanding performance. The girls loved it. My mom loved it. I loved it. It was a great night. I loved having this mother daughter time with them. Can't wait until our next adventure.
Sister
Ariana wrote a personal narrative about Cedar Point and riding the magnum. She wrote about how Julia was too scared to ride it. When Julia found out she was upset and said, "Ariana! You can't say that!"
Ariana replied, "Julia! It's a personal narrative. It's full of truths!"
LOL. Trevor and I got a kick out of that one.
Ariana replied, "Julia! It's a personal narrative. It's full of truths!"
LOL. Trevor and I got a kick out of that one.
Craziness
It was a Thursday night, after eight and I was picking Ariana up from dance. She was sitting in the car with me waiting for Julia to get out of her class when she says to me, "You are going to be really mad at me but I have a science BA tomorrow." I asked her if she studied for it and she said no. I then asked her when she found out about it and she replied, Monday. I asked her why she didn't study for it and she said, "Because I didn't feel like studying." I asked her why she was telling me now because she was obviously not planning on studying for it. She said because she was going to study when she was in bed tonight and she didn't want dad and I yelling at her to stop reading and turn out her light. She knew she was going to get caught and decided she should just tell me now so I wouldn't get as mad. I couldn't believe she did this. She always does her homework. I don't have to check up on her. She does her work. When we got home we did some cramming and studied all that we could. When it was then 9:30pm I told her she had to go to bed and that we would study more in the morning.
When I was tucking her in bed she told me she was stinky and needed a shower. It was almost 10pm, two hours past her bedtime! I was really mad now. She didn't study for her test when she was suppose to and now she needed a shower and was going to be in bed even later.
During her shower Trevor and I were in the bathroom brushing our teeth and getting ready for bed. I told Ariana it was important that she showers every other day. So she says, "I guess this is the last time I will be taking a shower on Thursday." Trevor says, "No you will still shower on Thursdays. It just won't be every Thursday."
"No," Ariana says. "I am going to shower every other day. Mom says."
We were confused and then I got what she was saying. When I said every other day she took it literally as every other day except Thursday. Sunday-Saturday excluding Thursday. Ariana is one smart sarcastic cookie. We need to watch out for that one. We can't let her out smart us.
When I was tucking her in bed she told me she was stinky and needed a shower. It was almost 10pm, two hours past her bedtime! I was really mad now. She didn't study for her test when she was suppose to and now she needed a shower and was going to be in bed even later.
During her shower Trevor and I were in the bathroom brushing our teeth and getting ready for bed. I told Ariana it was important that she showers every other day. So she says, "I guess this is the last time I will be taking a shower on Thursday." Trevor says, "No you will still shower on Thursdays. It just won't be every Thursday."
"No," Ariana says. "I am going to shower every other day. Mom says."
We were confused and then I got what she was saying. When I said every other day she took it literally as every other day except Thursday. Sunday-Saturday excluding Thursday. Ariana is one smart sarcastic cookie. We need to watch out for that one. We can't let her out smart us.
Monday, December 6, 2010
Hugs
I love hugs from my kids. I love when they come up to me out of the blue and give me a hug for no reason. They wrap their sweet little arms around my neck and say, "I love you mom!" I love that.
Julia doesn't hug me as much as Ariana. I think it is because Ariana is younger. Ariana will come up to me and sit on my lap and just hug me. I cherish these moments and want them to last forever.
Julia doesn't hug me as much as Ariana. I think it is because Ariana is younger. Ariana will come up to me and sit on my lap and just hug me. I cherish these moments and want them to last forever.
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Self Portrait
I was trying to update my profile picture with a picture that I liked and realized I don't have any pictures of myself! Then I thought, "My kids are going to grow up and won't have any pictures of what I looked like when I was young!" lol I don't want to be 50 and realize I don't have any pictures of when I was in my 30's. I thought the 30's were suppose to be your prime? I am going to make it a priority to take some pictures of myself.
I need pictures taken of me. I am the one always behind the camera. I have amazing picture of the girls and Trevor but the ones on my self are very limited. And the few that I have, I don't like. Either my smile is wrong, or my hair is messy, or I just look odd in it. I have a couple nice ones of me with Julia and me with Ariana but none of just myself. The one with the girls are from one of our summer trips. At least I made sure to get at least one picture of me on vacation.
My new photography goal to work on a self portrait. I love natural light so I guess that means I will be heading outside to freeze my butt off. Of course I had to realize I needed to work on self portraits when the temperature dropped and the forecast is calling for snow. :)
I need pictures taken of me. I am the one always behind the camera. I have amazing picture of the girls and Trevor but the ones on my self are very limited. And the few that I have, I don't like. Either my smile is wrong, or my hair is messy, or I just look odd in it. I have a couple nice ones of me with Julia and me with Ariana but none of just myself. The one with the girls are from one of our summer trips. At least I made sure to get at least one picture of me on vacation.
My new photography goal to work on a self portrait. I love natural light so I guess that means I will be heading outside to freeze my butt off. Of course I had to realize I needed to work on self portraits when the temperature dropped and the forecast is calling for snow. :)
Monday, November 22, 2010
Just like Mommy
I love that the girls are so excited for Thanksgiving. They are so excited that you would think it was Christmas. Ariana cannot wait to help me in the kitchen. She says she LOVES to cook. I think it is really sweet that she wants to help me. She is also excited for her Daddy's famous apple pie. She LOVES that pie. She would eat the whole thing if I let her.
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Washington DC
I went to Washington DC for the first time and attended the Rally to Restore Sanity and/or Fear. It was an incredible experience. Trevor and I left early Friday morning on October 29th. We drove into Virginia and stayed with a friend for the weekend. The drive through Pennsylvania, Maryland, West Virginia, and Virginia was beautiful with rolling hills of barren trees and splashes of yellow.
The next day we headed out to Washington DC. I was very excited. I had never been to DC or a rally DC. I was going to DC for the rally and not to sight see. There was going to be too many people in DC tour the monuments and museums. We weren't sure how large the crowd was going to be but people were estimating the crowd to be about 150,000 people.
When we got to the metro station we were a little surprised to see the amount of people there. We tried to get there early but we were not early enough. The ride into DC was extremly crowed. At every stop a few more people crowded onto the train. At one point the doors would not shut and the driver warned us that if the doors could not shut then everyone would have to get off then train and then re board. I'm so glad the doors finally shut.
On the metro we went past Arlington National Cemetery. I saw it very quickly out the window. I also saw the Capital Building and the Washington Monument as we were going past the National Airport. We finally got to our stop and made our way out the door. If you ever wonder what the statement "packed like sardines" means, just ride the metro into DC for a rally.
Once off the metro, the first place we went was the White House. We were meeting some friends there and then going to National Mall. It was surreal looking at the White House. I had only seen the White House on televison in the news or in a movie or television show. It seemed so small. It was strange to look at the house and think, "This is where President Obama lives. He might even be in there right now. He could be in there right now sitting at his desk looking out the window. He might even see me standing out here in the street." I'm sure that he was not looking at me, but you never know. It was a strange feeling knowing the President so close. Some people might not feel the same way I do, but I thought it was pretty cool.
We started making our way to the National Mall. There were so many people walking to the mall. If you didn't know the way, all you had to do was to follow mass of people. Once we got to the mall I looked around to take in the sights but all I could see was people. lol. There were so many people there. I couldn't see anything. We wanted to position ourselves by a big screen television or a speaker but we couldn't get close to any of them. So we found a spot by some sectioned off grass. Some of the grass was sectioned off and people could not walk on it. I guess the mall's lawn was in disrepair and the fenced off areas were where new grass seed had been planted. We were able to see the far away screens but could not hear them very well.
When I looked around and all I could see was people. The planners of the rally only had a permit for 60,000 people. The big screens and speakers were in the area the rally had the permit for. But there were many more people people in attendance. The stage was set up in front of the Capital Building and the crowd stretched to the Washington Monument. The crown also spilled out on the sides of the Mall. I had never been in a crowd this large. I thought I would have been uneasy being around this many people. But I wasn't. The people there were very friendly. They were also pretty polite too.
Everyone was there for the same reasons. They were tired of hearing about the Tea Party and how many supporters they had. They were tired of hearing about how all muslims are bad. About how President Obama isn't an American and wasn't really born in Hawaii. Tired of hearing that his birth certificate was fake. Tired of hearing about Palin and her nonsense. Tired of hearing about how national healthcare is bad and how the republicans want to repeal it. Tired of hearing about how national healthcare has caused the cost of our movie tickets to increase. Tired of hearing Fox News exaggerating the truth or just making up fake news to cause panic and fear in our society.
Looking out at all these people I felt relief. Relief that there were thousands of people that felt the same way I did. Thousands of people were fed up like I was. Thousands of people came here like I did to show that we do care. That we do have a voice. That we can stand up for what we believe. That we can exercise our right to freedom of free speech and show our support for restoring sanity. That we can show the American people there is another voice besides the tea party voice. There are people out there that think there is a lot of nonsense in the media. That we are tired of the media creating news and fear. I know I am not very eloquent in my words and writing but this is what I felt. I was proud to be a part of it.
I'm glad I went to Washington. I will be going back. Next time Julia and Ariana will be with us and we will tour the monuments and see the museums. But I will always remember that the first time I went to Washington DC, I was there for a rally to restore sanity. And who knows, maybe next time I will see the President.
There were some really funny signs in the crowd. Some of the ones I remembered was:
I like turtles.
I might not agree with you but I know I won't stomp on your head.
The time is know.
I thought I voted for a muslim.
If a riot breaks out I am totally stealing an iPad.
I think the tea party needs more tea.
I prefer coffee.
Every word on this sign is spelled correctly.
God loves gays.
This is a double rainbow.
The next day we headed out to Washington DC. I was very excited. I had never been to DC or a rally DC. I was going to DC for the rally and not to sight see. There was going to be too many people in DC tour the monuments and museums. We weren't sure how large the crowd was going to be but people were estimating the crowd to be about 150,000 people.
When we got to the metro station we were a little surprised to see the amount of people there. We tried to get there early but we were not early enough. The ride into DC was extremly crowed. At every stop a few more people crowded onto the train. At one point the doors would not shut and the driver warned us that if the doors could not shut then everyone would have to get off then train and then re board. I'm so glad the doors finally shut.
On the metro we went past Arlington National Cemetery. I saw it very quickly out the window. I also saw the Capital Building and the Washington Monument as we were going past the National Airport. We finally got to our stop and made our way out the door. If you ever wonder what the statement "packed like sardines" means, just ride the metro into DC for a rally.
Once off the metro, the first place we went was the White House. We were meeting some friends there and then going to National Mall. It was surreal looking at the White House. I had only seen the White House on televison in the news or in a movie or television show. It seemed so small. It was strange to look at the house and think, "This is where President Obama lives. He might even be in there right now. He could be in there right now sitting at his desk looking out the window. He might even see me standing out here in the street." I'm sure that he was not looking at me, but you never know. It was a strange feeling knowing the President so close. Some people might not feel the same way I do, but I thought it was pretty cool.
We started making our way to the National Mall. There were so many people walking to the mall. If you didn't know the way, all you had to do was to follow mass of people. Once we got to the mall I looked around to take in the sights but all I could see was people. lol. There were so many people there. I couldn't see anything. We wanted to position ourselves by a big screen television or a speaker but we couldn't get close to any of them. So we found a spot by some sectioned off grass. Some of the grass was sectioned off and people could not walk on it. I guess the mall's lawn was in disrepair and the fenced off areas were where new grass seed had been planted. We were able to see the far away screens but could not hear them very well.
When I looked around and all I could see was people. The planners of the rally only had a permit for 60,000 people. The big screens and speakers were in the area the rally had the permit for. But there were many more people people in attendance. The stage was set up in front of the Capital Building and the crowd stretched to the Washington Monument. The crown also spilled out on the sides of the Mall. I had never been in a crowd this large. I thought I would have been uneasy being around this many people. But I wasn't. The people there were very friendly. They were also pretty polite too.
Everyone was there for the same reasons. They were tired of hearing about the Tea Party and how many supporters they had. They were tired of hearing about how all muslims are bad. About how President Obama isn't an American and wasn't really born in Hawaii. Tired of hearing that his birth certificate was fake. Tired of hearing about Palin and her nonsense. Tired of hearing about how national healthcare is bad and how the republicans want to repeal it. Tired of hearing about how national healthcare has caused the cost of our movie tickets to increase. Tired of hearing Fox News exaggerating the truth or just making up fake news to cause panic and fear in our society.
Looking out at all these people I felt relief. Relief that there were thousands of people that felt the same way I did. Thousands of people were fed up like I was. Thousands of people came here like I did to show that we do care. That we do have a voice. That we can stand up for what we believe. That we can exercise our right to freedom of free speech and show our support for restoring sanity. That we can show the American people there is another voice besides the tea party voice. There are people out there that think there is a lot of nonsense in the media. That we are tired of the media creating news and fear. I know I am not very eloquent in my words and writing but this is what I felt. I was proud to be a part of it.
I'm glad I went to Washington. I will be going back. Next time Julia and Ariana will be with us and we will tour the monuments and see the museums. But I will always remember that the first time I went to Washington DC, I was there for a rally to restore sanity. And who knows, maybe next time I will see the President.
There were some really funny signs in the crowd. Some of the ones I remembered was:
I like turtles.
I might not agree with you but I know I won't stomp on your head.
The time is know.
I thought I voted for a muslim.
If a riot breaks out I am totally stealing an iPad.
I think the tea party needs more tea.
I prefer coffee.
Every word on this sign is spelled correctly.
God loves gays.
This is a double rainbow.
Sunday, October 24, 2010
The Costume
October 24, 2010
It was such a beautiful day today, sunny and 71˚! I took the girls to get pumpkins today. We went to the pumpkin patch at the grocery store. It was cheaper that way. The pumpkins were only $3 each. Way better than spending $15+ a pumpkin at a real pumpkin patch. Then we went to Game Stop so I could get them their DS games that I owed them since July. They can't complain. They got their games. Julia got a game for going on the Funnel of Fear water slide. (Which she ended up loving and riding three more times.) Ariana got a game because how could I get Julia one and not get Ariana one? Next we stopped at Michaels to buy the supplies for Ariana's Halloween costume.
Some people are very curious to see Ariana's costume this year. A mom of one of Ariana's friends told me she can't wait to see what I make this year for Ariana's costume. She always thinks they are so creative. She also wondered how I came up with the ideas. Well, I don't. Ariana tells me what she wants to be and then I have to figure out how to make it. lol. The easiest was when she wanted to be a mailbox. I was telling my neighbor Ariana wanted to be a mailbox for halloween and that I didn't know how I was going to make it. Then he said he had a mailbox costume in his basement and asked if I wanted to borrow it. Of course I wanted to borrow it!
Every year she comes up with the coolest ideas. The only time she had a store bought costume was when she was JoJo from JoJo's Circus. She wore that costume when she was 2 and 3. Then when she was 4 she wanted to be a witch. We used stuff we had around the house to make that one. It was cute because all the other girls in her preschool class were princesses. In Kindergarden she was a present. 1st grade she was a lollipop. 2nd grade she was a mailbox. And in 3rd grade she is going to be......
You'll have to wait a few more days before I will tell. lol.
It was such a beautiful day today, sunny and 71˚! I took the girls to get pumpkins today. We went to the pumpkin patch at the grocery store. It was cheaper that way. The pumpkins were only $3 each. Way better than spending $15+ a pumpkin at a real pumpkin patch. Then we went to Game Stop so I could get them their DS games that I owed them since July. They can't complain. They got their games. Julia got a game for going on the Funnel of Fear water slide. (Which she ended up loving and riding three more times.) Ariana got a game because how could I get Julia one and not get Ariana one? Next we stopped at Michaels to buy the supplies for Ariana's Halloween costume.
Some people are very curious to see Ariana's costume this year. A mom of one of Ariana's friends told me she can't wait to see what I make this year for Ariana's costume. She always thinks they are so creative. She also wondered how I came up with the ideas. Well, I don't. Ariana tells me what she wants to be and then I have to figure out how to make it. lol. The easiest was when she wanted to be a mailbox. I was telling my neighbor Ariana wanted to be a mailbox for halloween and that I didn't know how I was going to make it. Then he said he had a mailbox costume in his basement and asked if I wanted to borrow it. Of course I wanted to borrow it!
Every year she comes up with the coolest ideas. The only time she had a store bought costume was when she was JoJo from JoJo's Circus. She wore that costume when she was 2 and 3. Then when she was 4 she wanted to be a witch. We used stuff we had around the house to make that one. It was cute because all the other girls in her preschool class were princesses. In Kindergarden she was a present. 1st grade she was a lollipop. 2nd grade she was a mailbox. And in 3rd grade she is going to be......
You'll have to wait a few more days before I will tell. lol.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Skipping By
October 21, 2010,
I can't believe it is almost the end of October already! This month has just flown by. The kids brought home their school pictures the other day. Well, actually a few weeks ago but they got lost in the heap of papers on the counter and I found them again a few days ago. Anyway, I was updating the picture frames and looking at the old pictures in the frames from their previous grades. When I put Ariana's new third grade picture in the frame I compared it to her kindergarden picture and couldn't believe how old she looked now. :( She does not look like my baby anymore. It makes me sad to see her growing up.
When I looked at Julia's pictures, I thought the same thing but not as sad. Ariana is my baby so I always see her as the little one. When she is with Julia, Ariana looks young. I always look at Julia as the older sister so when she looks older to me it is not sad. When I look at Ariana I see her as the baby so when she looks older and is not the "baby" any longer, it makes me sad.
I have to admit she is easier to handle being older. Those early years were a challenge. I also like that we can do more things now that they are older. I don't have to worry about naps, or what we are going to do if they get bored. I'll just have to cherish these "young" years now because the teenage years are right around the corner and then everything changes.
I can't believe it is almost the end of October already! This month has just flown by. The kids brought home their school pictures the other day. Well, actually a few weeks ago but they got lost in the heap of papers on the counter and I found them again a few days ago. Anyway, I was updating the picture frames and looking at the old pictures in the frames from their previous grades. When I put Ariana's new third grade picture in the frame I compared it to her kindergarden picture and couldn't believe how old she looked now. :( She does not look like my baby anymore. It makes me sad to see her growing up.
When I looked at Julia's pictures, I thought the same thing but not as sad. Ariana is my baby so I always see her as the little one. When she is with Julia, Ariana looks young. I always look at Julia as the older sister so when she looks older to me it is not sad. When I look at Ariana I see her as the baby so when she looks older and is not the "baby" any longer, it makes me sad.
I have to admit she is easier to handle being older. Those early years were a challenge. I also like that we can do more things now that they are older. I don't have to worry about naps, or what we are going to do if they get bored. I'll just have to cherish these "young" years now because the teenage years are right around the corner and then everything changes.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
A Day at the Beach
October 17th, 2010,
I have been itching to get back out to western Michigan to take some pictures. So I called a photography friend of mine and planned a photography excursion. We wanted to shoot the fall colors and get one of those gorgeous awe-inspiring Lake Michigan sunsets. When Ariana found out where I was going, she wanted to come along too. I was very excited to have her tagalong.
We went to a wooded trail first and got some great shots. Ariana also got some terrific shots. In fact, one of her compositions was better than mine! I was a little jealous, but quite proud of her. She has a great eye. I'll have to start teaching her all I know.
That evening we went to a park on Lake Michigan and waited for the sunset. We got a sunset, but it was less then stellar. It was very dull and boring. There was not a cloud insight. I did get a lot of great shots of Ariana though.
Overall it was GREAT day! I loved spending the day with Ariana. She was such a trooper and was very good. Hopefully we can do it again soon.
I have been itching to get back out to western Michigan to take some pictures. So I called a photography friend of mine and planned a photography excursion. We wanted to shoot the fall colors and get one of those gorgeous awe-inspiring Lake Michigan sunsets. When Ariana found out where I was going, she wanted to come along too. I was very excited to have her tagalong.
We went to a wooded trail first and got some great shots. Ariana also got some terrific shots. In fact, one of her compositions was better than mine! I was a little jealous, but quite proud of her. She has a great eye. I'll have to start teaching her all I know.
That evening we went to a park on Lake Michigan and waited for the sunset. We got a sunset, but it was less then stellar. It was very dull and boring. There was not a cloud insight. I did get a lot of great shots of Ariana though.
Overall it was GREAT day! I loved spending the day with Ariana. She was such a trooper and was very good. Hopefully we can do it again soon.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Football
October 2, 2010
Where has September gone? It feels like it was Labor Day, then I blinked and now it was October. Ariana must have felt the same way because on October 1st she told me she had to go flip her calender. When she got in her room I heard her laugh and say, "It's still on August." So she missed the whole month of September. lol.
September was a whirl wind. We had the start of school, which was a big deal since now we have a middle schooler. Then dance started up so our part-time hobby of Dion Taxi Service resumed. Next we had to throw in a birthday. Which she still hasn't had her birthday party and she reminds me of this everyday. We just didn't have a weekend to include one. Oh, and don't forgot curriculum nights at school for the girls and the fact that I get home really late from work. I think now that all the school year has started and we are getting back into the rhythm of it all that maybe it will slow down. Yeah, who I am kidding? Having kids who are involved in activities means we will always be busy. I guess I'll keep my running shoes on.
Last night my parents came over to visit. While they we here my dad told me about why Ariana doesn't like football season. When the girls were over and his house and saw that football was on, they both groaned. My dad said, "What, you don't like football?"
Ariana replied, "No."
"Why not," my dad asked.
"Because it's always on."
"Well, that's because it is football season."
Ariana being the feisty one that she is replied, "It's not football season. It's more like swearing season at our house."
My dad thought that was great. He could just imagine what it was like over here with Trevor watching football. I have to say, Ariana is completely right. It is swearing season. It's amazing the teams Trevor is rooting for ever win. It always sounds like they loose. So figure.
Where has September gone? It feels like it was Labor Day, then I blinked and now it was October. Ariana must have felt the same way because on October 1st she told me she had to go flip her calender. When she got in her room I heard her laugh and say, "It's still on August." So she missed the whole month of September. lol.
September was a whirl wind. We had the start of school, which was a big deal since now we have a middle schooler. Then dance started up so our part-time hobby of Dion Taxi Service resumed. Next we had to throw in a birthday. Which she still hasn't had her birthday party and she reminds me of this everyday. We just didn't have a weekend to include one. Oh, and don't forgot curriculum nights at school for the girls and the fact that I get home really late from work. I think now that all the school year has started and we are getting back into the rhythm of it all that maybe it will slow down. Yeah, who I am kidding? Having kids who are involved in activities means we will always be busy. I guess I'll keep my running shoes on.
Last night my parents came over to visit. While they we here my dad told me about why Ariana doesn't like football season. When the girls were over and his house and saw that football was on, they both groaned. My dad said, "What, you don't like football?"
Ariana replied, "No."
"Why not," my dad asked.
"Because it's always on."
"Well, that's because it is football season."
Ariana being the feisty one that she is replied, "It's not football season. It's more like swearing season at our house."
My dad thought that was great. He could just imagine what it was like over here with Trevor watching football. I have to say, Ariana is completely right. It is swearing season. It's amazing the teams Trevor is rooting for ever win. It always sounds like they loose. So figure.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Growing Up
September 28, 2010
It has been a whirl wind month. It is hard to believe it is almost over. Last week was curriculum night, where we go to the girl's schools and learn about their new classes and teachers. Dance also started a couple weeks ago so we are now part-time taxi drivers. lol
This morning it was raining and I asked Julia if she wanted me to drive her to the bus stop and she said yes. So I drove her and dropped her off. It was really dark, wet and hard to see. After she got out of the car I couldn't see her and I didn't want to leave until I knew where she was. I didn't want to run over my own kid. So I rolled down the window and called her name.
She answered "What?" I said, "I didn't know where you were and I don't want to hit you."
She replied, "Over here. Now shoo!"
"Shoo," I thought. I asked her, "Did you just shoo me?"
"Yes. Now go, mom."
Wow. I was shooed this morning. :( lol
It has been a whirl wind month. It is hard to believe it is almost over. Last week was curriculum night, where we go to the girl's schools and learn about their new classes and teachers. Dance also started a couple weeks ago so we are now part-time taxi drivers. lol
This morning it was raining and I asked Julia if she wanted me to drive her to the bus stop and she said yes. So I drove her and dropped her off. It was really dark, wet and hard to see. After she got out of the car I couldn't see her and I didn't want to leave until I knew where she was. I didn't want to run over my own kid. So I rolled down the window and called her name.
She answered "What?" I said, "I didn't know where you were and I don't want to hit you."
She replied, "Over here. Now shoo!"
"Shoo," I thought. I asked her, "Did you just shoo me?"
"Yes. Now go, mom."
Wow. I was shooed this morning. :( lol
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
September 22th
September 22nd, 2010
I started driving Ariana and her friend Jack to school because the bus is always late. I wasn't going to make a habit out of it, but now I think it is. Ariana doesn't want to ride the bus to school anymore and went as far as to say that since her job is lunch count person she needs to be there on time or else she won't be able to do it. She really wanted that job and made sure to get her application in on the first day so she had a better chance of getting it. Her quickness paid off and she got the position. I guess I have to drive her everyday now. lol
I started driving Ariana and her friend Jack to school because the bus is always late. I wasn't going to make a habit out of it, but now I think it is. Ariana doesn't want to ride the bus to school anymore and went as far as to say that since her job is lunch count person she needs to be there on time or else she won't be able to do it. She really wanted that job and made sure to get her application in on the first day so she had a better chance of getting it. Her quickness paid off and she got the position. I guess I have to drive her everyday now. lol
Monday, September 20, 2010
September 20th
September 20, 2010,
I love when Ariana comes up to me for no reason and gives me hugs and kisses. It is so sweet. She just brings a smile to my face and brightens my day. Both of my girls are awesome and rock. I feel grateful to have such terrific kids.
I love when Ariana comes up to me for no reason and gives me hugs and kisses. It is so sweet. She just brings a smile to my face and brightens my day. Both of my girls are awesome and rock. I feel grateful to have such terrific kids.
Friday, September 17, 2010
September 17th
September 16th, 2010,
My baby turned twelve. I can't believe it was twelve years ago that I was in Okinawa and she was born. It seems just like yesterday. Twelve years ago I was at my friends house wondering when I was going to have my baby. I was already a week overdue and was anxious to be a mother. So I was at my friend's house and it was about 9 p.m. and my back started hurting. I didn't think anything of it and then my friend told me that I was probably starting labor. Sure enough, that is what was happening.
I went to the hospital at 5:30 a.m. At 1:14 p.m. Julia was born. She was so beautiful. And still is. She smiled at Trevor and he swears it was a real smile. I think it was too. Trevor called my family and his family to tell them Julia was born. When he called it was only September 15th in Michigan. We always tell Julia she has two birthdays because it was September 15th in Michigan when she was born. We know the 16th is her real birthday but it is still a cool story.
My baby turned twelve. I can't believe it was twelve years ago that I was in Okinawa and she was born. It seems just like yesterday. Twelve years ago I was at my friends house wondering when I was going to have my baby. I was already a week overdue and was anxious to be a mother. So I was at my friend's house and it was about 9 p.m. and my back started hurting. I didn't think anything of it and then my friend told me that I was probably starting labor. Sure enough, that is what was happening.
I went to the hospital at 5:30 a.m. At 1:14 p.m. Julia was born. She was so beautiful. And still is. She smiled at Trevor and he swears it was a real smile. I think it was too. Trevor called my family and his family to tell them Julia was born. When he called it was only September 15th in Michigan. We always tell Julia she has two birthdays because it was September 15th in Michigan when she was born. We know the 16th is her real birthday but it is still a cool story.
Birthday
September 15, 2010
We celebrated Julia's birthday today with the family. I asked what she wanted for dinner and chicken divan and brown rice was her choice. She had a great day and loved her presents and being with the family.
Tomorrow we will celebrate her actual birthday and she will open her presents from us. Overall it was a really good day.
We celebrated Julia's birthday today with the family. I asked what she wanted for dinner and chicken divan and brown rice was her choice. She had a great day and loved her presents and being with the family.
Tomorrow we will celebrate her actual birthday and she will open her presents from us. Overall it was a really good day.
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Hugs
How does this parenting thing work? How do you hold it together in front of your child when you just want to break down and cry? Middle school, ugh. Girls especially. And it's just the beginning, I hear it gets worse. Hell, I know it gets worse. I went through it. It all just sucks ass. It's a time in your life that is important because it makes you who you are but at the same time you want to skip right over it all. Everything I feared is taking place and there is nothing I can do to stop it or shelter her from it. I have to just sit here and watch it unfold. How do you watch it happen?
Oh I know you might think I am being dramatic. I feel like I am being dramatic. I can't help how I feel. I feel like I am going through it all over again. Only this time it's worse because I am watching my baby go through it. You promise your kids you will always protect them and watch out for them. And you never want to see them get hurt. Then you have to sit back and watch them get hurt so they can experience live and become stronger. So unfair. But then who ever said life was fair.
You know the timeless story. There is a girl who is a friend (1), then for some reason she isn't anymore. So you meet another friend (2). (1) doesn't like (2). Then all of a sudden (1) and (2) are friends and (2) dumps you and doesn't like you anymore. No big deal right? Tell your kid to hang out with other people. The problem is, I don't know if there are other people. I thought there were. I hoped there were. But there weren't many phone calls over the summer. I tell myself it's because people are busy. I hope it is because people are busy. Maybe they were doing family stuff. I hope they were doing family stuff. Or maybe it's because they call other girls instead.
I don't know what to do. Is she mean, rude, aloof, odd. . . She wants a cell phone because she thinks that is why they don't like her. I tell her a cell phone is not going to help. And why would she want to be friends with someone if they only want to hang out with her so they can text her? Why would I want to get her a phone so that she could just be left out in another way? She could text people and they could still ignore her.
Renee came over tonight and cheered me up. Told me everything was going to be fine. She will find other friends. She is a sweet kid who is nice and kind and fun to be around. Girls are bitches and she will move on. There will always be people who don't like her. She reminded me that Julia is not me. That she is not reliving my experiences. She is living her own. So I pulled myself together and took a deep breath.
This is the first of many nights but they will make us stronger. They will make me a better mother. I will be there for my kids and will watch them get hurt. I will let them experience life and become their own person. I will always be there to help them back up and give them a hug when they need one. I will let them fall and find their way so they can become strong young women.
Oh I know you might think I am being dramatic. I feel like I am being dramatic. I can't help how I feel. I feel like I am going through it all over again. Only this time it's worse because I am watching my baby go through it. You promise your kids you will always protect them and watch out for them. And you never want to see them get hurt. Then you have to sit back and watch them get hurt so they can experience live and become stronger. So unfair. But then who ever said life was fair.
You know the timeless story. There is a girl who is a friend (1), then for some reason she isn't anymore. So you meet another friend (2). (1) doesn't like (2). Then all of a sudden (1) and (2) are friends and (2) dumps you and doesn't like you anymore. No big deal right? Tell your kid to hang out with other people. The problem is, I don't know if there are other people. I thought there were. I hoped there were. But there weren't many phone calls over the summer. I tell myself it's because people are busy. I hope it is because people are busy. Maybe they were doing family stuff. I hope they were doing family stuff. Or maybe it's because they call other girls instead.
I don't know what to do. Is she mean, rude, aloof, odd. . . She wants a cell phone because she thinks that is why they don't like her. I tell her a cell phone is not going to help. And why would she want to be friends with someone if they only want to hang out with her so they can text her? Why would I want to get her a phone so that she could just be left out in another way? She could text people and they could still ignore her.
Renee came over tonight and cheered me up. Told me everything was going to be fine. She will find other friends. She is a sweet kid who is nice and kind and fun to be around. Girls are bitches and she will move on. There will always be people who don't like her. She reminded me that Julia is not me. That she is not reliving my experiences. She is living her own. So I pulled myself together and took a deep breath.
This is the first of many nights but they will make us stronger. They will make me a better mother. I will be there for my kids and will watch them get hurt. I will let them experience life and become their own person. I will always be there to help them back up and give them a hug when they need one. I will let them fall and find their way so they can become strong young women.
Memory for September 10th
September 10, 2010
TGIF! I love Fridays. I think they are my favorite day of the week. Today was a great day as well. But first we had to get through some tears and hurt feelings. Tweeners! Can't actually say teenager because she is only 11 (almost 12). The emotions in our household were all out of whack this evening. Not a little kid anymore but not a teen yet either. You remember how it was. You get bored when you play with your toys but then, what else is there to do. Throw in other kids (boys and girls), and hormones, and you are left with a mess. Ahhhh... those lovely years we all repress and can't really remember.
Trevor told her this is all just a small portion of her life that she won't really remember anyway. lol. I told her she is in a time where she is trying to "find" herself and formulate her own opinions. Trevor brought it to my attention that she probably doesn't know what formulate mean. That is true but I am not a dictionary and could not explain it. So I guess neither one of us really helped her. Now we are the parents who just don't understand. I guess we fit in will all the parents not. lol
Things then got better. (They always do with tweens because their emotions change with the wind.) And we met my mom, dad, Aunt Gloria, and Uncle Carl at the Weal Inn for dinner. Yes we took the kids to the bar. We can do that now that Michigan restaurants are smoke free. Woo Hoo!! That place has great fish. Not as good as the Cozy Inn up in Brimley. But nobody can beat fresh whitefish from Superior. And yes the Cozy Inn is another bar we take the kids too. What is with all these bars having great food???
When we got back home we settled in for the night and watched Night at the Museum 2. We just joined Netflix and this was the movie that arrived in our mailbox. I didn't want to join but when the place we always rent from went out-of-business what else was I to do? I think with Netflix we will more movies too. I do know if that is a good or bad thing...
TGIF! I love Fridays. I think they are my favorite day of the week. Today was a great day as well. But first we had to get through some tears and hurt feelings. Tweeners! Can't actually say teenager because she is only 11 (almost 12). The emotions in our household were all out of whack this evening. Not a little kid anymore but not a teen yet either. You remember how it was. You get bored when you play with your toys but then, what else is there to do. Throw in other kids (boys and girls), and hormones, and you are left with a mess. Ahhhh... those lovely years we all repress and can't really remember.
Trevor told her this is all just a small portion of her life that she won't really remember anyway. lol. I told her she is in a time where she is trying to "find" herself and formulate her own opinions. Trevor brought it to my attention that she probably doesn't know what formulate mean. That is true but I am not a dictionary and could not explain it. So I guess neither one of us really helped her. Now we are the parents who just don't understand. I guess we fit in will all the parents not. lol
Things then got better. (They always do with tweens because their emotions change with the wind.) And we met my mom, dad, Aunt Gloria, and Uncle Carl at the Weal Inn for dinner. Yes we took the kids to the bar. We can do that now that Michigan restaurants are smoke free. Woo Hoo!! That place has great fish. Not as good as the Cozy Inn up in Brimley. But nobody can beat fresh whitefish from Superior. And yes the Cozy Inn is another bar we take the kids too. What is with all these bars having great food???
When we got back home we settled in for the night and watched Night at the Museum 2. We just joined Netflix and this was the movie that arrived in our mailbox. I didn't want to join but when the place we always rent from went out-of-business what else was I to do? I think with Netflix we will more movies too. I do know if that is a good or bad thing...
Friday, September 10, 2010
Memory for September 9th
September 9, 2010,
The kids were off school today for the jewish holiday. It was a nice day, though it was cool; autumn has arrived. When summer left it really left. It went from hot humid shorts and tank wearing days to cool windy jeans and sweater wearing days. I'm still holding out for that indian summer.
This morning we hung around the house and cleaned. The girls were suppose to be cleaning their rooms. They dragged out that task all morning and into lunch. Julia decided it was a perfect time to start going threw her clothes and giving stuff to Ariana. Then Ariana was trying to hang everything up in her closet and ran out of hangers. And of course all this was going on while both of their rooms were trashed. Then I had to go in and help Ariana go through her clothes to make room for the new stuff. Alias, not what I wanted to do today but it needed to get done.
After all that chaos, the girls and I went on a photo shot with a friend and her daughter. The girls had a great time and I got some great shots. It was a nice way to spend the day with the kids on their day off.
On a side note, before dinner Ariana finished off a container of milk and then asked me what she should with it. I replied, "Throw it away." Really??? Must I always think for my kids???? lol
The kids were off school today for the jewish holiday. It was a nice day, though it was cool; autumn has arrived. When summer left it really left. It went from hot humid shorts and tank wearing days to cool windy jeans and sweater wearing days. I'm still holding out for that indian summer.
This morning we hung around the house and cleaned. The girls were suppose to be cleaning their rooms. They dragged out that task all morning and into lunch. Julia decided it was a perfect time to start going threw her clothes and giving stuff to Ariana. Then Ariana was trying to hang everything up in her closet and ran out of hangers. And of course all this was going on while both of their rooms were trashed. Then I had to go in and help Ariana go through her clothes to make room for the new stuff. Alias, not what I wanted to do today but it needed to get done.
After all that chaos, the girls and I went on a photo shot with a friend and her daughter. The girls had a great time and I got some great shots. It was a nice way to spend the day with the kids on their day off.
On a side note, before dinner Ariana finished off a container of milk and then asked me what she should with it. I replied, "Throw it away." Really??? Must I always think for my kids???? lol
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Memory for September 7th
September 7, 2010,
Today went awesome! Yeah!!!! I walked Julia halfway to the bus stop, no body saw me so she was safe. lol When I was walking back I got a little teary eyed. I was starting to worry about whether she would be okay, if the kids would be nice, if she would meet new friends, if she would have someone to eat with, if if, if..... I hate that word. I need to stop that. I knew she would be great. I knew she would love it. No more ifs. Well, hopefully no more ifs. At least I will make an effort for no more ifs. lol
Ariana also had a great day. She loves her teacher (so do we). She got to see her friends again and play on recess with them. She was all smiles.
They were both so excited when I got home from work. It was hard to listen to them both. They wanted to keep interrupting each other. It's hard to tell one to stop and wait. So we took turns. Julia talked a little then Ariana talked a little. It was so very reassuring to hear they both had perfect days.
So no more worrying from me. ......well at least not for awhile.
Today went awesome! Yeah!!!! I walked Julia halfway to the bus stop, no body saw me so she was safe. lol When I was walking back I got a little teary eyed. I was starting to worry about whether she would be okay, if the kids would be nice, if she would meet new friends, if she would have someone to eat with, if if, if..... I hate that word. I need to stop that. I knew she would be great. I knew she would love it. No more ifs. Well, hopefully no more ifs. At least I will make an effort for no more ifs. lol
Ariana also had a great day. She loves her teacher (so do we). She got to see her friends again and play on recess with them. She was all smiles.
They were both so excited when I got home from work. It was hard to listen to them both. They wanted to keep interrupting each other. It's hard to tell one to stop and wait. So we took turns. Julia talked a little then Ariana talked a little. It was so very reassuring to hear they both had perfect days.
So no more worrying from me. ......well at least not for awhile.
Memory for September 6th
September 6, 2010
Last day of summer vacation is always bittersweet. It marks the end of the summer and the start of new beginnings. It is sad the carefree days will end but it is the start of an exciting new chapters.
I will have a middle schooler tomorrow. Wow, middle school. I'm sure there will be tears, moods, laughter, more tears, and lots of moody attitudes. I'm sure there will be a little fun thrown in there somewhere. Isn't that what middle school is all about?
I will also have a third grader. Kind of funny her dad thought she was going into fourth grade. Third grade is a big deal too. This is when they step it up. The work is a little harder and more is expected out of the students. I know Ariana is so ready for that. No more being bored at school. I'm sure her teacher will keep her busy.
So summer is over and fall is beginning. Guess it's time for cider mills and donuts......
Last day of summer vacation is always bittersweet. It marks the end of the summer and the start of new beginnings. It is sad the carefree days will end but it is the start of an exciting new chapters.
I will have a middle schooler tomorrow. Wow, middle school. I'm sure there will be tears, moods, laughter, more tears, and lots of moody attitudes. I'm sure there will be a little fun thrown in there somewhere. Isn't that what middle school is all about?
I will also have a third grader. Kind of funny her dad thought she was going into fourth grade. Third grade is a big deal too. This is when they step it up. The work is a little harder and more is expected out of the students. I know Ariana is so ready for that. No more being bored at school. I'm sure her teacher will keep her busy.
So summer is over and fall is beginning. Guess it's time for cider mills and donuts......
Monday, September 6, 2010
Memory for September 2nd
September 2, 2010
Ariana knows me very well. She knows that I hate shopping. I despise it actually. So when we were at the grocery store and she saw my overflowing cart she asked, "Mom you're going to be in a bad mood when we get home aren't you?"
All I could do was laugh. It was so funny that she knows me so well and knew I get mad when I shop.
Ariana knows me very well. She knows that I hate shopping. I despise it actually. So when we were at the grocery store and she saw my overflowing cart she asked, "Mom you're going to be in a bad mood when we get home aren't you?"
All I could do was laugh. It was so funny that she knows me so well and knew I get mad when I shop.
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Memory for September 1st
September 1st, 2010
The first day of September, and that means summer is coming to an end. So Sad... lol When I came home for lunch, right when I walked in the kitchen, Julia said, "Fifteen more days until my birthday!" Wow, time is just flying by. She will be twelve in fifteen days.
Today was also the last time we will probably swim in the pool this summer. It is suppose to rain tomorrow, and then a cold front is moving through. Ariana, Julia, and I went in the pool when I came home from work. Trevor was gracious enough to make dinner so I could enjoy the last nice day of summer!!!! While I was swimming with the girls, Trevor was making spaghetti with sautéed garlic, tomatoes, and basil. MMMmmmmmmm......
While we were swimming, Ariana, Julia, and I saw through the window that he was wearing... an apron! The girls got a kick out of that. It is a cool apron might I add. A black Williams Sonoma apron that he bought for me many Christmases ago, that I don't wear. He looked dashing in it though. lol
Thanks Trevor, Ariana, and Julia for making today memorable.
The first day of September, and that means summer is coming to an end. So Sad... lol When I came home for lunch, right when I walked in the kitchen, Julia said, "Fifteen more days until my birthday!" Wow, time is just flying by. She will be twelve in fifteen days.
Today was also the last time we will probably swim in the pool this summer. It is suppose to rain tomorrow, and then a cold front is moving through. Ariana, Julia, and I went in the pool when I came home from work. Trevor was gracious enough to make dinner so I could enjoy the last nice day of summer!!!! While I was swimming with the girls, Trevor was making spaghetti with sautéed garlic, tomatoes, and basil. MMMmmmmmmm......
While we were swimming, Ariana, Julia, and I saw through the window that he was wearing... an apron! The girls got a kick out of that. It is a cool apron might I add. A black Williams Sonoma apron that he bought for me many Christmases ago, that I don't wear. He looked dashing in it though. lol
Thanks Trevor, Ariana, and Julia for making today memorable.
Memory for August 31st
August 31, 2010
Today was an important day for Julia, middle school orientation. I can't believe my Julipooh is going to middle school. It seems like it was just yesterday that I brought her home from the hospital. Now I will be sending her off to middle school.
We had to wake up early this morning to get ready to go. Today was also picture day and I wanted to make sure her hair was dry before her pictures were taken. When she wears her hair curly she has to wet it in the morning then let it air dry. I am not going to like when summer is over and I have to start getting up at 5:30am. My days are going to very long.
The orientation went great. We picked up her schedule, received her books, got her locker combo, and found where all of her classes were. We met her advisor/science teacher. He was really nice. Talking with him and seeing the school really eased Julia's nerves. She said she is now ready for middle school and less nervous.
I know middle school always sucks because it is an awkward time in kids' lives, but I think Sarah Banks is a really nice school with a great staff and it might not be that bad after all. I'm even a little excited.
Today was an important day for Julia, middle school orientation. I can't believe my Julipooh is going to middle school. It seems like it was just yesterday that I brought her home from the hospital. Now I will be sending her off to middle school.
We had to wake up early this morning to get ready to go. Today was also picture day and I wanted to make sure her hair was dry before her pictures were taken. When she wears her hair curly she has to wet it in the morning then let it air dry. I am not going to like when summer is over and I have to start getting up at 5:30am. My days are going to very long.
The orientation went great. We picked up her schedule, received her books, got her locker combo, and found where all of her classes were. We met her advisor/science teacher. He was really nice. Talking with him and seeing the school really eased Julia's nerves. She said she is now ready for middle school and less nervous.
I know middle school always sucks because it is an awkward time in kids' lives, but I think Sarah Banks is a really nice school with a great staff and it might not be that bad after all. I'm even a little excited.
Memory for August 30th
August 30, 2010
I have been coming home for lunch to spend some time with the girls but most days they have already eaten and stay downstairs the whole time. Today however, they eat lunch with me. We had yummy quesadillas. I even made guacamole. They don't like the guac, but I do. It was nice finally being able to share lunch with them. I'll miss that when they go back to school.
I have been coming home for lunch to spend some time with the girls but most days they have already eaten and stay downstairs the whole time. Today however, they eat lunch with me. We had yummy quesadillas. I even made guacamole. They don't like the guac, but I do. It was nice finally being able to share lunch with them. I'll miss that when they go back to school.
Memory for August 29th
August 29, 2010
The girls danced at Market Day this afternoon. I always enjoy watching them dance here. It is really laid back and fun. And they enjoy dancing there as well.
After the dancing we headed back home and jumped in the pool. It was another hot steamy day and the pool was very refreshing. While we were sitting around relaxing Trevor decided to bring his beer into the pool. When we was getting on the raft he slipped and dropped the beer into the water. Julia just happened to be taking a video and caught all the action. Way to go Julia!
The girls danced at Market Day this afternoon. I always enjoy watching them dance here. It is really laid back and fun. And they enjoy dancing there as well.
After the dancing we headed back home and jumped in the pool. It was another hot steamy day and the pool was very refreshing. While we were sitting around relaxing Trevor decided to bring his beer into the pool. When we was getting on the raft he slipped and dropped the beer into the water. Julia just happened to be taking a video and caught all the action. Way to go Julia!
Monday, August 30, 2010
Memory for August 28th
August 28, 2010
Summer is still here and we sure were feeling it today. It was a gorgeous hot sunny summer day while Julia and I were at a football game watching her friend cheer. After being in the sun for a while we were eager to get back home and jump in the pool. We don't have very many pool days left and we were glad to be able to enjoy our pool today. Summer is coming to an end way too quickly.
This afternoon, all of us were in the pool, Ariana, Julia, Trevor, and I. It was nice having a family swim day. Ariana was smiling, sitting in her green tube, wearing her white sunglasses, looking all hollywood. I kept calling her Miss Hollywood and she would just smile and laugh. She was so adorable. Then after awhile she asked us what it meant. lol
Julia kept pestering Trevor, splashing him, and driving him nuts. That was funny to watch. Someone besides me has to give him a hard time.
All of us in the pool together made for a perfect summer day. I'm going to hate to see summer come to an end. Summer please don't go away......
On a side note, Trevor found Ariana's missing iTouch!!!!! It has been missing since the last day of school in June. We thought it had been thrown away and that we would never see it again. Trevor found it in the couch downstairs while he was looking for the missing remote. Yep. Our remote was missing. Does that really surprise anyone? This summer we have had quite a few things go missing. I'm just so thrilled that everything has been found. Well not everything. I just remembered that Ariana lost the top to one of her bathing suits back in June. She only wore the suit once. She has the bottom but not the top. How she lost the top, I do not know. I can live with a missing bath suit top though.
Summer is still here and we sure were feeling it today. It was a gorgeous hot sunny summer day while Julia and I were at a football game watching her friend cheer. After being in the sun for a while we were eager to get back home and jump in the pool. We don't have very many pool days left and we were glad to be able to enjoy our pool today. Summer is coming to an end way too quickly.
This afternoon, all of us were in the pool, Ariana, Julia, Trevor, and I. It was nice having a family swim day. Ariana was smiling, sitting in her green tube, wearing her white sunglasses, looking all hollywood. I kept calling her Miss Hollywood and she would just smile and laugh. She was so adorable. Then after awhile she asked us what it meant. lol
Julia kept pestering Trevor, splashing him, and driving him nuts. That was funny to watch. Someone besides me has to give him a hard time.
All of us in the pool together made for a perfect summer day. I'm going to hate to see summer come to an end. Summer please don't go away......
On a side note, Trevor found Ariana's missing iTouch!!!!! It has been missing since the last day of school in June. We thought it had been thrown away and that we would never see it again. Trevor found it in the couch downstairs while he was looking for the missing remote. Yep. Our remote was missing. Does that really surprise anyone? This summer we have had quite a few things go missing. I'm just so thrilled that everything has been found. Well not everything. I just remembered that Ariana lost the top to one of her bathing suits back in June. She only wore the suit once. She has the bottom but not the top. How she lost the top, I do not know. I can live with a missing bath suit top though.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Memory for August 27th
August 27,2010
I went on a photo shot with the girls tonight. We walked over to the park and I got some portraits of both of them. They weren't being very cooperative today. It was warm and the grass was dry and picky. By the end they had had enough and were done being my models. That's okay though. I got some great shots.
I went on a photo shot with the girls tonight. We walked over to the park and I got some portraits of both of them. They weren't being very cooperative today. It was warm and the grass was dry and picky. By the end they had had enough and were done being my models. That's okay though. I got some great shots.
Memory August 26th
August 26, 2010
Tonight Ariana, Julia, and I read in Julia's bed. We all laid next to each other enjoying our own books. It was so nice being together. I love moments like this.
Tonight Ariana, Julia, and I read in Julia's bed. We all laid next to each other enjoying our own books. It was so nice being together. I love moments like this.
Memory for August 25th
August 25, 2010
Summer is coming to an end more quickly than I want it to. I love the carefree hot summer days. No lunches to pack. No homework to check. No schedules to keep. Summer don't end yet.
Julia told me Pinky the tooth fairy forgot to come last night. We were in her room tucking her into bed. I told her to show me her tooth. So she reached under the pillow and pulled out her box. She opened it and saw money inside. I guess Pinky came sometime during the day when she was not paying attention. Those tooth fairies are very sneaky.
Summer is coming to an end more quickly than I want it to. I love the carefree hot summer days. No lunches to pack. No homework to check. No schedules to keep. Summer don't end yet.
Julia told me Pinky the tooth fairy forgot to come last night. We were in her room tucking her into bed. I told her to show me her tooth. So she reached under the pillow and pulled out her box. She opened it and saw money inside. I guess Pinky came sometime during the day when she was not paying attention. Those tooth fairies are very sneaky.
Memory for August 24th
August 24, 2010
When I woke up this morning the girls were in Julia's bed again. I just smiled to myself and relished the very sweet moment. I also got a call at work from Julia telling me that she lost a tooth. This was huge accomplishment since she never pulls out a tooth. She was very proud of herself.
Then Trevor surprised me and made an awesome dinner for us. It was a pasta dish that was very good. It was so nice to come home from work and dinner was already made. I enjoy nights like these.
When I woke up this morning the girls were in Julia's bed again. I just smiled to myself and relished the very sweet moment. I also got a call at work from Julia telling me that she lost a tooth. This was huge accomplishment since she never pulls out a tooth. She was very proud of herself.
Then Trevor surprised me and made an awesome dinner for us. It was a pasta dish that was very good. It was so nice to come home from work and dinner was already made. I enjoy nights like these.
Memory for August 23rd
August 23, 2010
When I woke up this morning and walked by Ariana's room I saw she wasn't in it. Nobody was awake yet so I went to Julia's room to have a peek. That is where I saw both girls sleeping together in Julia's bed. They used to do that a lot before they each got their own rooms. They looked so adorable and sweet sleeping together. I'm so glad they get along and like each other. Well, at least some of the time.
When I woke up this morning and walked by Ariana's room I saw she wasn't in it. Nobody was awake yet so I went to Julia's room to have a peek. That is where I saw both girls sleeping together in Julia's bed. They used to do that a lot before they each got their own rooms. They looked so adorable and sweet sleeping together. I'm so glad they get along and like each other. Well, at least some of the time.
Memory for August 21st
August 21, 2010
Today Ariana told that if you are ugly on the outside and gorgeous on the inside, then you are actually gorgeous on the outside too. Then she told me that if you are pretty and on the outside and ugly on the inside, then you are really ugly on the outside.
Today Ariana told that if you are ugly on the outside and gorgeous on the inside, then you are actually gorgeous on the outside too. Then she told me that if you are pretty and on the outside and ugly on the inside, then you are really ugly on the outside.
Memory for August 20th
August 20th, 2010
We went to Cedar Point today seeking thrills and excitement and got a little of both. It was a hot sunny day that left us tired, sticky, sweaty and ripe. When we were in line for the Maverick, the second ride we went on, I commented that my arm pits were wet. Julia agreed with me and said hers were too. Then Ariana said, "
My pits aren't wet." I just about died laughing. She said pits and not arm pits. I thought it sounded funny.
It turned out that the Maverick was the girls' favorite ride. When were riding it I didn't know for sure. I could hear Julia screaming but I didn't know if they were screams of fear or excitement. It turns out they were excitement. After Julia rode it for the first time, she thanked Trevor and I for talking her into riding it. She was hesitant at first and didn't want to get on it. But she ended up liking it after all. Funny how that happens.
Ariana was our brave little woopersnapper and rode the Magnum for the first time. There was so line so we got ride up there and only had to wait for two cars. That made it a little easier since she couldn't really think about the ride and chicken out. When we were going up the hill I looked over the side and said I think she should be sitting on this side. Ariana looked really nervous and asked a little frightened, "Why?" Then I told her I didn't like this side because it just dropped down and her side had the stairs. I liked sitting by the stairs and always sit by the stairs. So she just looked around nervously. I told me later she was thinking, "Why did I go on this stupid ride?"
When I saw we were at the top I told her, "Here we go. We're at the top. Hold on tight." And down we went. I watched her on the way down and her eyes were bulging and her mouth was wide open. Then as we were going up the next hill. I saw her expression change to excitement. I asked her if she liked it and she laughed, "I love it!" That's my girl I thought with a smile.
We had a really great day at the park. I watched Julia and Ariana ride the Wildcat together. Watching them, sisters, on the roller coaster together was a picture perfect moment. Carefree. Summer. Sisters. Happiness. Ahhhhh summer.....
When I was on one of the carnival type rides, Tronka?, I looked over at Julia with Trevor and thought, wow that girl is beautiful. She was laughing and smiling and growing up so fast. She is going to be twelve next month. Where has the time gone?
I asked Ariana, "Do you think she knows how beautiful she is?" Ariana replied, "No." So I told Ariana, her and her sister are very beautiful girls.
At the end of the day we decided to call it quits. We rode the Maverick one last time and then headed home. In the car Trevor said, "Wow that was one full day." Ariana replied, "Dad, everyday is a full day." lol. Ok smarty pants. lol
We went to Cedar Point today seeking thrills and excitement and got a little of both. It was a hot sunny day that left us tired, sticky, sweaty and ripe. When we were in line for the Maverick, the second ride we went on, I commented that my arm pits were wet. Julia agreed with me and said hers were too. Then Ariana said, "
My pits aren't wet." I just about died laughing. She said pits and not arm pits. I thought it sounded funny.
It turned out that the Maverick was the girls' favorite ride. When were riding it I didn't know for sure. I could hear Julia screaming but I didn't know if they were screams of fear or excitement. It turns out they were excitement. After Julia rode it for the first time, she thanked Trevor and I for talking her into riding it. She was hesitant at first and didn't want to get on it. But she ended up liking it after all. Funny how that happens.
Ariana was our brave little woopersnapper and rode the Magnum for the first time. There was so line so we got ride up there and only had to wait for two cars. That made it a little easier since she couldn't really think about the ride and chicken out. When we were going up the hill I looked over the side and said I think she should be sitting on this side. Ariana looked really nervous and asked a little frightened, "Why?" Then I told her I didn't like this side because it just dropped down and her side had the stairs. I liked sitting by the stairs and always sit by the stairs. So she just looked around nervously. I told me later she was thinking, "Why did I go on this stupid ride?"
When I saw we were at the top I told her, "Here we go. We're at the top. Hold on tight." And down we went. I watched her on the way down and her eyes were bulging and her mouth was wide open. Then as we were going up the next hill. I saw her expression change to excitement. I asked her if she liked it and she laughed, "I love it!" That's my girl I thought with a smile.
We had a really great day at the park. I watched Julia and Ariana ride the Wildcat together. Watching them, sisters, on the roller coaster together was a picture perfect moment. Carefree. Summer. Sisters. Happiness. Ahhhhh summer.....
When I was on one of the carnival type rides, Tronka?, I looked over at Julia with Trevor and thought, wow that girl is beautiful. She was laughing and smiling and growing up so fast. She is going to be twelve next month. Where has the time gone?
I asked Ariana, "Do you think she knows how beautiful she is?" Ariana replied, "No." So I told Ariana, her and her sister are very beautiful girls.
At the end of the day we decided to call it quits. We rode the Maverick one last time and then headed home. In the car Trevor said, "Wow that was one full day." Ariana replied, "Dad, everyday is a full day." lol. Ok smarty pants. lol
Memory for August 19th
August 19th, 2010
Looking at the world today I don't feel we have come very far in terms of racism and bigotry, and that sure is a shame. Why is it, that because of a person's skin color, religious preference, sexual gender, or sexual orientation that they can be treated differently? There was a time in our history not that long ago that marriages of black people were not recognized. Then biracial marriages were not recognized. Now gay marriages are not recognized. Why are we fighting so hard against it? Is it because that is what we have done in the past and have not learned from it?
Today I was sitting at the table reading the news on my laptop and it disturbed me to read about the mosque being built two blocks away from ground zero. A religious group is building a community center/masque in New York City. No big deal, right? Lots of things are built in NYC. The mosque was approved in January to be build. Now three months before an election the public is outraged, a mosque at ground zero means the terrorists have won. Really? It think a mosque two blocks away from ground zero means the terrorists have lost. I think the rallies to boycott it mean the terrorist have won.
I called the girls into the kitchen so we could talk about was going on. I felt they were old enough to understand what was going on. I also wanted to instill in them at an early age that bigotry and racism is not okay. I asked them if they remembered what happened oh September 11th. They did. Then we talked about it for a little bit. We talked about what had happened and all the people who were injured and those who lost their lives. We talked about the courageous people who helped others and those who died as well. We talked about the terrorists how they were muslim and were supposedly told by god to do that horrific work. I also explained to them that it is not part of the muslim teachings to kill people and that no god would tell people to kill others. We also talked about how people now don't like muslims, any muslims.
Then I told them about the Oklahoma City bombing and how the person who committed that act was christian. I said after that act of terrorism people still liked christians. Then I told them that there was a beautiful memorial built in Oklahoma City to honor the men, women, and children who died. Trevor, Julia, and I went to the memorial when we lived there and were touched by the simplicity and importance of it.
Then we started to discuss the issue at hand. I asked them if it was okay to hate all muslims? No they replied. I asked them if it was okay to hate all christians? No was the same reply. Then I brought up pictures of what ground zero looks like today. I am still amazed that after almost nine years it still looks like a war zone. No memorial to honor those who died have been built yet.
Then we started to discuss the mosque. I told them muslim religious group wanted to build a community center/mosque/church and how it was going to be two blocks away. We looked outside and tried to determine what was two blocks. Then I told them that there was a group of people who did not want the mosque to be build. How they felt it was a disgrace and dishonor to those who died. The girls were confused by that. They wondered why people would feel like that. Julia said it should be built. That it was okay. Ariana said, "Yea, it should be built. Because it's not like anything else is there. It's just a pile of garbage. You can't even park there." Wow. She thought it was okay if the mosque was built and even went as far as to think it should be built on top of ground zero because nobody had done anything with that land. I explained then that it should not be built on ground zero. That a memorial needs to built there but she was right nothing has been done.
We also talked about how there are people fighting against a health care bill that would help those that got sick because of all the dust and debris from 9/11. Those people were fireman, policemen, emergency workers, and ordinary people like you and me that helped as well. The air was toxic and now the people are suffering and the healthcare they have is not enough to cover their expenses. I told them the same people who are fighting the extended healthcare benefits for the heros are also some of the same people fighting the building of the mosque.
We talked about how bigotry is not okay. Everyone will experience some form of bigotry. I explained to the girls that if they are with their friends and their friends are being racist they don't need to call their friend a racist but just to say that they are not being very nice or that is not cool. I also told the girls that they will also have racist thoughts as well. We all do. So I when they don't like a person I want them to stop and ask themselves: do I not like this person because of their skin color, because of they are a girl or a boy, because of their religion, because of how much money they have or don't have? And if they answer yes to any of those they need to stop and beware of their thoughts and change their outlook. We are ALL equal. I am not better than someone because I am white. I am not better because I am a woman. I am not better because I make more money than someone else. I am not better because I am American. I am Michelle, I am equal.
If only the world was a less hateful place to live it. Can't we all just get along?
Looking at the world today I don't feel we have come very far in terms of racism and bigotry, and that sure is a shame. Why is it, that because of a person's skin color, religious preference, sexual gender, or sexual orientation that they can be treated differently? There was a time in our history not that long ago that marriages of black people were not recognized. Then biracial marriages were not recognized. Now gay marriages are not recognized. Why are we fighting so hard against it? Is it because that is what we have done in the past and have not learned from it?
Today I was sitting at the table reading the news on my laptop and it disturbed me to read about the mosque being built two blocks away from ground zero. A religious group is building a community center/masque in New York City. No big deal, right? Lots of things are built in NYC. The mosque was approved in January to be build. Now three months before an election the public is outraged, a mosque at ground zero means the terrorists have won. Really? It think a mosque two blocks away from ground zero means the terrorists have lost. I think the rallies to boycott it mean the terrorist have won.
I called the girls into the kitchen so we could talk about was going on. I felt they were old enough to understand what was going on. I also wanted to instill in them at an early age that bigotry and racism is not okay. I asked them if they remembered what happened oh September 11th. They did. Then we talked about it for a little bit. We talked about what had happened and all the people who were injured and those who lost their lives. We talked about the courageous people who helped others and those who died as well. We talked about the terrorists how they were muslim and were supposedly told by god to do that horrific work. I also explained to them that it is not part of the muslim teachings to kill people and that no god would tell people to kill others. We also talked about how people now don't like muslims, any muslims.
Then I told them about the Oklahoma City bombing and how the person who committed that act was christian. I said after that act of terrorism people still liked christians. Then I told them that there was a beautiful memorial built in Oklahoma City to honor the men, women, and children who died. Trevor, Julia, and I went to the memorial when we lived there and were touched by the simplicity and importance of it.
Then we started to discuss the issue at hand. I asked them if it was okay to hate all muslims? No they replied. I asked them if it was okay to hate all christians? No was the same reply. Then I brought up pictures of what ground zero looks like today. I am still amazed that after almost nine years it still looks like a war zone. No memorial to honor those who died have been built yet.
Then we started to discuss the mosque. I told them muslim religious group wanted to build a community center/mosque/church and how it was going to be two blocks away. We looked outside and tried to determine what was two blocks. Then I told them that there was a group of people who did not want the mosque to be build. How they felt it was a disgrace and dishonor to those who died. The girls were confused by that. They wondered why people would feel like that. Julia said it should be built. That it was okay. Ariana said, "Yea, it should be built. Because it's not like anything else is there. It's just a pile of garbage. You can't even park there." Wow. She thought it was okay if the mosque was built and even went as far as to think it should be built on top of ground zero because nobody had done anything with that land. I explained then that it should not be built on ground zero. That a memorial needs to built there but she was right nothing has been done.
We also talked about how there are people fighting against a health care bill that would help those that got sick because of all the dust and debris from 9/11. Those people were fireman, policemen, emergency workers, and ordinary people like you and me that helped as well. The air was toxic and now the people are suffering and the healthcare they have is not enough to cover their expenses. I told them the same people who are fighting the extended healthcare benefits for the heros are also some of the same people fighting the building of the mosque.
We talked about how bigotry is not okay. Everyone will experience some form of bigotry. I explained to the girls that if they are with their friends and their friends are being racist they don't need to call their friend a racist but just to say that they are not being very nice or that is not cool. I also told the girls that they will also have racist thoughts as well. We all do. So I when they don't like a person I want them to stop and ask themselves: do I not like this person because of their skin color, because of they are a girl or a boy, because of their religion, because of how much money they have or don't have? And if they answer yes to any of those they need to stop and beware of their thoughts and change their outlook. We are ALL equal. I am not better than someone because I am white. I am not better because I am a woman. I am not better because I make more money than someone else. I am not better because I am American. I am Michelle, I am equal.
If only the world was a less hateful place to live it. Can't we all just get along?
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Memory for August 18th
August 18th, 2010
After work I did a photo shoot taking senior pictures. We were in Milford and saw a movie crew doing some filming. I did some research when I got home and discovered it was for the movie Home Run Derby. I never saw a movie crew before so I thought that was pretty cool. So you never know I might have a cameo in the movie. Hahaha.
I had a lot of fun tonight taking the pictures. I didn't get to see my kids too much today though. When I got home they were in the basement watching tv and stayed there until they went to bed. In fact I went to bed before them. I sure do miss them.
After work I did a photo shoot taking senior pictures. We were in Milford and saw a movie crew doing some filming. I did some research when I got home and discovered it was for the movie Home Run Derby. I never saw a movie crew before so I thought that was pretty cool. So you never know I might have a cameo in the movie. Hahaha.
I had a lot of fun tonight taking the pictures. I didn't get to see my kids too much today though. When I got home they were in the basement watching tv and stayed there until they went to bed. In fact I went to bed before them. I sure do miss them.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Memory for August 17th
August 17th, 2010
Shaking my head. The preteen years. The time when hormones are out of control and brains stop working. When I got home from work today I found out Julia was in trouble. You know the usual stuff; not doing her jobs, tricking her dad into letting her have a friend over before he realizes her work never got done. The stuff every kid does and once in awhile the parent falls for it. lol
Then I made the mistake of shopping for school supplies. Did I tell you I don't like shopping. I despise it actually. The kids love shopping especially school shopping. I on the other hand just get crabby, sad, and depressed.
The evening ended on high note though. Julia, Ariana and I saw the most amazing sunset on the way home from shopping. I pulled the car into Costco's parking lot and we enjoyed the incredible view. It had been raining earlier so the sky was a really dark blue grey. But there was a spot where the setting sun was peaking through that had streaks of purple. I was sooooo bummmmmeeeddd that I didn't have my camera and tripod. I have been wanting to get an awesome sunset picture. Well, I guess I better always have my camera with me. I never know when the perfect shot is waiting for me.
Shaking my head. The preteen years. The time when hormones are out of control and brains stop working. When I got home from work today I found out Julia was in trouble. You know the usual stuff; not doing her jobs, tricking her dad into letting her have a friend over before he realizes her work never got done. The stuff every kid does and once in awhile the parent falls for it. lol
Then I made the mistake of shopping for school supplies. Did I tell you I don't like shopping. I despise it actually. The kids love shopping especially school shopping. I on the other hand just get crabby, sad, and depressed.
The evening ended on high note though. Julia, Ariana and I saw the most amazing sunset on the way home from shopping. I pulled the car into Costco's parking lot and we enjoyed the incredible view. It had been raining earlier so the sky was a really dark blue grey. But there was a spot where the setting sun was peaking through that had streaks of purple. I was sooooo bummmmmeeeddd that I didn't have my camera and tripod. I have been wanting to get an awesome sunset picture. Well, I guess I better always have my camera with me. I never know when the perfect shot is waiting for me.
Monday, August 16, 2010
Memory for August 16th
Julia and Ariana were hanging out with grandma and grandpa again today. My mom brought them home and told me Julia was acting strange today. She told me Julia seemed mad and in a bad mood. So my mom asked if anything was wrong. Julia told her she was in a bad mood and didn't feel good. My mom was concerned and Julia said, "Don't worry Grandma it's only hormones." lol lol lol Ahhhh . . . the preteen years. lol lol lol
This reminds me of a time Julia was with my dad. He was driving her home she told him she felt like crying a lot lately. He got worried and ask why, what was wrong? Julia said, "My mom said it was normal and that it is because I'm starting puberty." My dad, being the kind of person he is, just gripped the steering wheel tighter and reply uncomfortably, "Oh." I'm sure he kept staring straight ahead, hoping the subject changed quickly, and probably counting down the seconds to my house. hehehe
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Memory for August 15th
The girls were in Grand Haven today with their Aunt Renee, Uncle Ryan, cousins, and grandma and grandpa Woodgate. I thought about going but decided against it for a couple of reasons: we had just gotten back from vacation last weekend and I'm still playing catch up, and it's hard to have a long tiring day and then have to work the next day. So I stayed at home and the girls went without me.
While they were gone it was awfully lonely and quite here. I did a little bit of cleaning. Then did a little yoga. Then decided to go for a swim. I finally had the pool all to myself and instead of being able to enjoy it, I missed having the girls in there playing and splashing and having fun.
As the day went on I was very eager to have them come home. I was wishing I had went to the beach too. Then finally they were back. they had a great time. The water was warm. The waves were huge. They had fun with their cousins. I'm glad they had fun but I'm also glad to have them back.
While they were gone it was awfully lonely and quite here. I did a little bit of cleaning. Then did a little yoga. Then decided to go for a swim. I finally had the pool all to myself and instead of being able to enjoy it, I missed having the girls in there playing and splashing and having fun.
As the day went on I was very eager to have them come home. I was wishing I had went to the beach too. Then finally they were back. they had a great time. The water was warm. The waves were huge. They had fun with their cousins. I'm glad they had fun but I'm also glad to have them back.
Memory for August 14th
August 14th
Today Julia went with her friend to WLC high school for viking day. She hadn't seen her friend all summer so she was thrilled to be able to hang out with her. Ariana was happy because she got to play with her friend from the neighborhood again today.
Ariana and Elizabeth walked back to our house because they were bored and wanted to go the park and wanted me to take them. But before we left they were hungry and wanted to eat some lunch meat. They were eating ham and Ariana put two pieces aside and said they had to save those two pieces for a sandwich for wanted to make tomorrow. When they were done they grabbed a Popsicle and we started walking to the park. We didn't get too far before it started to rain and came back home.
Later when the Julia and Ariana were getting ready for a sleepover at the grandparents, Julia got out the ham and started to make a sandwich. Ariana got mad when she saw Julia was going to eat the ham that she had saved. I couldn't help but laugh a little and told Ariana that Julia didn't know and that it was okay and I would buy more. Then Ariana said, “there better be ham in the fridge tomorrow when I go to make a sandwich.” Julia kindly reminded her that they were going to Lake Michigan with grandma and grandpa and wouldn't even be home tomorrow. So then Ariana said, “ok, well, then it better be here on Monday.” I thought, ok miss demanding when did you turn into your dad. Lol
Memory for August 13th
August 13th
Today's memory was the girls watching Punky Brewster and loving it. That was one of my favorite shows growing up and both of the girls liked it. Tonight was also the first time Julia babysat at night. We were only going to be a couple of streets away so we thought this would be perfect opportunity to tryout stay alone at night. If Julia got too freaked out, we could come home quick. And since we were so close she would felt comfortable. Everything went great and they got to watch a great show as well.
And it was Friday the 13th. lol Julia first night babysitting was on Friday the 13th. That is kind of funny.
Memory for August 12th
August 12th
Ok so I got behind in my memories and had the days mixed up. Today was actually doctor day and I can't remember what happened yesterday on Wednesday the 11th. See this is why I need to write everyday. I am forgetting things too quickly. lol
For today I'll tell a kind of funny story about our previous vacations. About three weeks ago, Julia noticed her DS games were missing. Unfortunately, she discovered this as we were walking out the door leaving for our vacation in July. Not a good way to start a trip. Especially since there was already a high price item missing in our house; Ariana's iTouch went missing in June.
As we were driving to Grand Haven, Trevor and I were discussing how upset we were that Julia did not take care of her stuff. We were really upset that the games were missing. I was trying to make us feel better and decided we should enjoy this moment. One day we will look back on this and think this was the easy stuff. We will say, “Wow remember the good old days when Julia's mistakes were easy like loosing a DS case.” I said in the future it could be worse. She could be saying I didn't mean to crash the car. Or god forbid she comes to us one day and says I didn't know it could happen the first time. (Read into that statement) Yeah, we decided it could be A LOT worse so we enjoyed this moment of the lost DS cases and savored the fact that this was the easy stuff. lol
The ds cases ended up reappearing two days before we left for our next trip when I rearranged her room and went through all her stuff again. I found them in her bag that had a gazillion pockets. I went through that bag went then first went missing. I guess I missed that one pocket. We thought Julia learned her lesson and would be more careful with them. But then six days later when we were in Petoskey on our way to Sault Ste. Marie, she starts to panic and says she can't find her cases. AGAIN?! AGH! We had checked out of our hotel in Traverse City that morning and the last place she remembers seeing them was on the bed. Of course, when we left went through the room I didn't check under the covers. I always check under the covers and I don't know why I didn't this time.
So I called the hotel and told them which room we were in and asked if someone found two Nintendo DS game cases. The woman on the phone asked if one of the cases were pink and the other one white. I told her yes those were them. We didn't want to turn around. We had been driving around taking our time sight seeing and were at least an hour and half away. We also didn't want to go out of our way on the trip home to get them. So my mom came to the rescue. Good thing she was driving up to Traverse City area the next day to visit her sister. Thank you so much mom! And Juuullliiiaaaa!!!!! lol
Friday, August 13, 2010
Memory for August 11th
August 11th
Today was doctor day again, trying to get all the appointments in before the beginning of the school year. Ariana had to get one shot and Julia had to get four. Poor Julia has been worrying for weeks about getting a shot. Imagine her surprise when she found out she had to get four! She was a trooper though and did great.
The funny part of the day was when I got home from work and there was a note on the table from Julia that said: Today I got 4 shots, so I couldn't do the extra dishes. Julia =) I guess she felt her arms hurt too bad. I didn't fight her on the issue. I figured she is a kid and did just get four shots. Clever. That is what that was. lol
Memory for August 10th
August 10th
So today the girls went to Grandma and Grandpa's to ride the go-cart and motor scooter. When I got home there was a crazy message from a very silly girl. I could not understand what she was saying but I deciphered that she was having a lot of fun and that her friend Jack was there and having fun too. Julia and Ariana think they are soooo funny leaving us silly messages.
Memory for August 9th
August 9th
Today's memory is giving and receiving bedtime hugs and kisses after a long rough day. I love how a hug from one of my girls can make all the bad stuff go away and put a smile on my face. Ariana will cuddle up with me and tell me I am the best mommy in the whole wide world and the she loves me. Awwww . . . . . . Julia will hug me and laugh her sweet laugh and make me smile. Always my Julipoo.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Memory for August 8th
August 8th
Today we left to go home. The car ride was very interesting. When we were almost home the girls started acting crazy and could not stop laughing. I don't know what got them going but once they strted they could not stop. They also entertained us by singing the Baby Shark song and driving Trevor nuts. That was kind of funny.
Memory for August 7th
August 7th
I had to write this blog twice because I lost the first entry. The first version was better. My memory for today is watching the girls give each other rides on the four wheeler. Julia gave Ariana a ride then they switched roles and Ariana gave Julia a ride. As the afternoon went on sky started to have puffy clouds so I stuck out my thumb and hitched a ride with Ariana on the four wheeler. She drove me down the road and I started taking pictures. It was a picture perfect day.
Later that night we had a bonfire and the girls sang songs. Ariana's favorite was the Baby Bummble Bee song. They also sang the Baby Shark song and Form the Banana song. They were so funny.
Memory for August 6th
August 6th, 2010
My memory for today is having a bonfire with my girls. My brother Steve got the fire going and then we sat around it and made smores. Mmmmmmm. That was the first time Ariana had smores. She liked them so much she had three or four. They also wanted to watch things burn so they threw a pop can in the fire. They liked watching it melt. Then Steve wrapped a plastic bag around a stick and put it in the fire. When the bag caught fire it would drip so it looked like the fire was dripping. The girls thought it looked cool.
When we were sitting around we were also looking at the stars. I wanted to try taking a star trail picture so we went down to the woods and set up the camera. Unfortunately, my first try at star trails did not work. So I'll try again and maybe next time will be better.
Friday, August 6, 2010
Memory for August 5th
August 5th, 2010
Ok the Soo does not like me. LOL It always rains and turns cold when I am up here. Brrrrr. The girls rode the four wheelers between the rain showers and then we went into to town to see the Soo Locks. It was disheartening to see more rain clouds. I really wanted to go to Cedarville and go swimming. We have not swam there in four years because is it always rainy and cold when we are up here.
Since the beach was out of the equation we headed down to Mackinaw City. We went in some shops and bought some fudge.
Then back to the Soo we went. The girls are watching more episodes of the Dukes of Hazard on dvds. My brother only gets three television stations up here and has a limited amount of dvds. By the time this trip is done I think I will have seen every episode about Hazard county.
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